God offers us so many ways in scripture to remember that Jesus has removed the sting of death. For that you may see 1 Thessalonians 4:13,14 and Job 19:25-27. But we also have been given this: that when his friend, Lazarus, had died, "Jesus wept." What greater comfort than to know that God shares our grief and loss. Jean and I pray for the comfort of His spirit to visit you, Aunt Janet and my cousins.